Three years ago today, I wed love of my life and my best friend. There were many times I didn’t think we’d last past a few months, but somehow we kept it going. He swears we met at a party outside of town, but I don’t remember him being there. Of course I don’t remember much of that party. LOL! Those were the college days. The day we officially hooked up, we had gone to a party in a group but I had a date. We spent the majority of the night together talking and flirting. When the party started to break up, we were sitting on the couch together and my roommate asked me where my date was. Someone said they thought he was outside and just when the music stopped, I said, “Oops!” Everyone in the room laughed. We weren’t really dating, and several other parties came and went. One in particular stays in my mind, because at the end of the night my mind had been made up. The next morning, I told my roommate that he was the one guy I wanted to be with. I just knew he was the one. Shortly thereafter, we officially started dating. I still remember when he first told me he loved me. He was very shy about it and we were standing out by my car, because I was heading back to my own dorm. A year and a half later, the day after Christmas, he proposed. I was down in Florida spending the holidays with his family. His sister was also getting married. We told no one since this was her special time and we didn’t want to take away from it. When we finally made the announcement, I think my sister was more excited than I was.
Our engagement was a long one, 5 1/2 years. We did the right thing. We graduated and got jobs first. But finally the day arrived. We had orginally planned to wed on May 5th, the day we officially started dating. But after 5 years I was tired of waiting, so I pushed it forward. Our wedding was perfect. You always hear all these horror stories about something going wrong. Everything went perfect. No glitches. Our honeymoon was everything I could have asked for. The weather, the plane ride, the rental, everything went as planned and we had a fabulous time. I still can’t believe how smoothly it all went. I guess it was the right time for us. Everyone claimed they’d never seen a happier bride. I was happy that day. I only wish it had lasted longer. It was over in a flash.
So here we are in the present. Three years and he is still my best friend and the love of my life. I couldn’t imagine my life without him in it.
Eric – Happy Anniversary. I love you.
